If you’re a guy, chances are you haven’t seen Crazy, Stupid, Love, having discarded it as ‘chick flick’. Well, it’s not, and you should definitely see it. It’s about a guy who loses sight of who he is as a man and subsequently loses his wife. Then Jacob (Ryan Gosling), steps in and makes the man rediscover the essence of what makes him a man. The jilted man, having gone through this transformation gets a ton of action as a result. We won’t spoil the rest, but the point is, straight men often make mistakes they’re not even aware of, and end up repelling women. So today, we’re Jacob, and we’re going to help you become more appealing to the opposite sex. You would be surprised with the impact a few minor tweaks in wardrobe, skincare and attitude can have on your success in the love department.
One of the major crimes men are continuously committing is not dressing for their body type. Men aren’t concerned with clothes as much as women are, but that lack of concern not doing you favors. You don’t have to be suited up all the time (although women do love men in suits), but don’t wear jeans that give you a ‘mom butt’, and don’t wear clothes that are too big. They make you look slouchy and lazy, and women pick up on that. Ask yourself – is this the impression you want to make? That you’re sloppy and careless ? We didn’t think so. If you need guidance, the salespeople are more than willing to help you look for clothes that fit and are flattering. Once you achieve a look that is polished and it’s visible that you’ve put in the effort, the payoff in the romance department is bound to happen.
The only thing more attractive than a savvy dresser is a guy who is well-groomed and smells incredible. There is something mystical about a man who smells amazing that just makes a woman weak in the knees. So, fellas, head out to the perfume store and pick out a fragrance wait for the heads to start turning. Another important grooming element is skincare. Although you’re not expected to adopt a twelve-step Korean skincare regimen, you could splurge on a good moisturizer that will make that skin super soft and those cheeks alluring and kissable. If you have a beard, keep it neat – it’s one of the first things a woman notices and your overall personal hygiene will be judged based on that. If you don’t, grow some facial hair, because science says that it makes you look more mature and immediately more attractive.
One of the changes you would never consider making is actually something you definitely should. This next ‘women attracting’ step is especially recommended to all the guys out there who have noticed signs of premature skin aging. The alteration we’re talking about is called a thread lift procedure, and it’s the least invasive of all the least invasive procedures out there. The results include reduced signs of aging, such as those lines around the eyes and nose. You will look younger, but in a natural non-plastic way, and the procedure itself is so simple that you can basically have it done during your lunch break. The ladies love a youthful-looking guy, and now you can become one and in less than a day.
While most women nurture a dislike towards men with huge arms, all bulked up, a little muscle definition wouldn’t hurt, in fact, it will help, a lot. You don’t have to strive towards legs of steel and washboard abs, but flabby arms and a beer gut will definitely not have women lined up to date you. So, start with a light jog, make yourself stronger. Aside from improving the state of your physique, exercising actually has a great positive impact on your self-esteem and confidence levels, which again, is something you definitely want to have in life generally, but especially when it comes to attracting women.
Guys who are alone in bars are usually considered creepy, and that is definitely the opposite of attractive. Therefore, when you’re done with all the aforementioned steps and put your best look forward, gather your wingmen and go out. According to a study from the University of California at San Diego, people are considered better-looking when in a group as oppose to standing alone. This phenomenon is called the “cheerleader effect”, according to which people appear more attractive in groups because viewing faces together makes them look more like the group average.
Written by: Peter Minkoff
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